I get this question so much that I want to walk around with a recorded response that plays on cue. It's not that I'm against marriage.. But at this time in my life, it's just not for me.. Most of my friends recently decided to take that plunge and I truly wish them best.
I've seen happy marriages and I've seen some marriages for convenience, and that bothers me.. I also see people that are married but continue to live their lives as if they were single. My issue is if you want to live that way, stay single. Why make a commitment if you don't hold up your end of the bargain?
To be honest, I enjoy being single. I enjoy my freedom..For single people out there, isn't funny how your married friends and family always try to "set you up?" They feel like they're doing you a favor. If it was up to my mom, I would have my own reality show - of course she wants me to get married, but more so she pushing for a grandchild - so, don't be surprised if you hear of a new show called "Who Wants to Marry My Daughter and Get her Pregnant, Immediately?" <~ Should I trademark that? haha... ;p
Love can be a beautiful thing, however, a lot of things have to be considered before you make a serious commitment. I commend those people who know they aren't ready. I commend those who know when they are. In reality, marriage is like a job where both people play the role of supervisor and employee equally.
It's often said that when one looks, one never finds. It may sound cliche but I may have already met my husband to be and don't even know it. Some people get married young, some people get married when they're older and some not at all. Let the individual make decision. Who knows somewhere down the line you may see a blog from me about "Wedded Bliss", but for now, I'll stick with enjoying my life one day at a time.
"Wait patiently for the right person to come your way; the wrong ones will always be available"
Mom, this is the reasons why I'm not married yet :
~ Nice men.. are ugly.
~ Good looking men... are jerks
~ Good looking and nice men... are married
~ Good looking, nice men and understand me... are gay
~ Good looking, nice and unmarried men... are useless
~ Good looking, nice, unmarried and rich men... are not interested in me
~ Good looking, nice, unmarried, rich men who are interested in me... are flirts
~ Men who are not so handsome, but are nice men, have no money.
~ Handsome men without money are after my money.
~ Good looking men, who are not so nice and somewhat heterosexual, don't think I'm beautiful enough.
~ Men who think I'm beautiful, that are heterosexual, somewhat nice and have money, are coward.
~ Men who are somewhat handsome, somewhat nice and have some money and thank God are heterosexual, are shy and NEVER MAKE THE FIRST MOVE!!!
~ Men who never make the first move, automatically lose interest in me when I take the initiative...
Mom.... Satisfied???
~ Signing off
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